There will always be distractions: I am not sure about you, but for me, it is really easy to find something else to do. You know what I mean. On Saturdays, instead of cleaning the house, I have to run errands instead. On some mornings, instead of reading at least one chapter, I must read the emails from yesterday afternoon or the ones that came through the night. On payday, instead of sending more money towards my mortgage, I really need a new dress shirt, or to go out for a friend’s birthday party. Maybe you have found yourself in one of the above aforementioned scenarios. I have found that distractions from what I should do will always be there. In most cases, like 99% of them, I don’t even have to look very hard, they will just show up. What is distracting you from doing what you need to be doing?
Paying for it everyday: I have been doing this set of exercises now for about six months or so. It is a quasi-crossfit workout. It is basically a 25-30 minute cycle that consists of five actual workouts that include sit-ups, squats, kettle bell swings, burpees and a few other exercises. I typically do fifty of one of the activities and then I do rowing, running, or something called Jacobs Ladder in between the sets of the other exercises. It gets my heart rate really high and at the end of the session I am thoroughly exhausted. There are some days I can do the session pretty easily. But most days, the session is killer. I consider myself to be pretty fit and in shape. But this workout is really hard and it seems to never get easier. And even if it seems easier, I still have to do it frequently, because if I don’t do it for a few days it is even harder when I do it the next time. Like most things in life. You have to show up every single day. You have to work hard every day. You have to be trustworthy everyday. You have to do most things everyday to become good at it. Don’t show up for work for a few days in a row and see if they still pay you. The same things apply in life. Everything requires you to show up everyday. You can never get where you want to go without showing up everyday and paying for it everyday.
Everybody has the opportunity: I have found that in most things in work and in life, in general, we all have equal opportunity. Sure, are some people set up better from the onset. Absolutely, but in general for most of the things in life we all have the same opportunity. For example: We both have equal opportunity on the job to show up everyday and do the best we can. We both have equal opportunity to invest in our 401K. We both have equal opportunity to take advantage of the additional training that is offered. We both have equal opportunity to have the right attitudes towards policies and procedures. We both have equal opportunity to work overtime. We both have equal opportunity to stay late or show up early and do the extra work to see a project through. Even though we all have equal opportunity to do the above, how many actual do it? That is usually the difference. We all have equal opportunity, but not everyone takes advantage of the opportunity. And that is what separates all of us in just about everything in America.
To your success and your future.